"sometimes reminders R important"

"'The Bluetooth Connection', is my collection of writings since 2010. 


The concept is not new but my friend asked me to bring out the reality behind some of the things and matters that are perceived delusional and present them simply, according to my mind understanding, observation and research. But we are not talking about the common observational things, in fact, we are dealing with sensitive and more complicated topics at hand i.e. beyond matter (metaphysics) and normal (paranormal).

The name 'The Bluetooth Connection' refers to the concept of our, human/non-human, linkage to that Supreme being, to whom some may refer as Allah, Baghwan, God, Nature, Divine or maybe Nothing!!! But that force or power still exists ... so we are talking about 'that connection' and how it develops or maybe not develops, what makes our soul, what are miracles, do they work at all !!! Whats the significance of brain, MIND and why it has been placed on the top of body (all the creatures) !!!!  So lets embark on the journey to what the world calls; Metaphysics/ Paranormal and experience the unknown.


I would also request readers to participate through providing comments or critique as much as you can/ want, to improve concepts and make things easier for most of us on the path of this uncommon road to intangible truth ...


Thanks for reading, being part of this (if you have reached this much) and would be grateful if you can provide with your valuable feedback & comments. You can also submit your writings on our FB group with the same name. The purpose of FB group is to gather, share and discuss with more like minded people among friends, family and friends of friends. 


Senoritas & Senors, i welcome you all to 'The Bluetooth Connection' (TBC) ... The world of busting myths and unveiling ourselves to ourselves, our real path. 


P.s: Positivity is the only way to a good life. 
As the title suggests, this post is a reminder to why & what is The Bluetooth Connection.


Cheers :) 

sometimes, only sometimes !!!

sometimes you are happy but still sad!
sometimes you are contented but feel insufficient!
sometimes you are crowded in people yet alone!
sometimes you know yourself yet not sure of your self!
sometimes you are blessed but feel maybe you aren't!
sometimes you feel that God loves you like mother but then you feel sacredness or frightfulness!
sometimes you feel that you are being understood but then no one understands!
sometimes you feel you are the plotter but then you realize nothing is in your hand!
sometimes you are blessed with so many friends but then you can't find any!
sometimes you are in loved to the core but still feel the hatred!
sometimes you are in trusted but betrayed!
sometimes you are knowledgeable but all ignorant!
sometimes you are the guide but lost!
sometimes you are the enduring yet unreliable!
sometimes you stand for goodness but proclaimed evil!

What are these sometimes? and why are these sometimes?

Sometimes you have everything but nothing!!!
Sometimes i understand yet i fail to !!!

mirror, mirror on the wall whose the fairest of us all?

ego wants to be special. if it cant be special, one way or the other, and if it cant be special by being superior to others then ego would also be quite happy with being quite miserable. e.g. headache, etc, etc. people actually compete whose more miserable 'you' or 'me'. the ego says that i am superior to you because it just wants to be recognized as special and it always tends to be special. therefore, if you recognize in your self, the unconscious need to be special then you are already half free because when you recognize the older patterns of the ego.

specialness is one pattern of the ego, another pattern of ego is that it wants to be right all the time, another pattern of the ego is that it needs and loves, conflict with others and this is the amazing thing. ofcourse thats unconscious because the ego defines itself through a boundary that draws, 'this is me and that is other'. and that is an important word because the ego needs to emphasis the 'otherness' of the other person and that happens on the personal level when people are suspicious of other peoples motives; enemies that is deeply built in the ego. The ego needs enemies because it defines itself by emphasising the otherness of the other. Nations do it, religions do it.

The believer, identifies with one particular religion, for many people religion is only a mind structure and not in its deeper sense but for many people religion is an ideology that they identify with and then they need the non-believer, the other because by having the 'other' they have their own sense of identity more strongly. They need the other in order to feel their own need of identity strongly. e.g. children's toy story happening in every house.

then their is ego identification with one form or another could be a physical form, a possession (my house, my car, my dog), so when u have identified the sense of who u are, is in that thing. and if that thing is criticised for example, by somebody else then you will become extremely defensive or aggressive because u r feeling, ur very own sense of self is threatened. then their are other forms of the identification, e.g. my opinions, minds forms, being very strong self-identification with their mental positions, 'and i am right' and it implies that somebody else has to be wrong and i continue to be right.

So what need to be done is to evolve or die from the stark daunting truth of ego. this is the point where the evolution of consciousness and awakening of humaity is no longer a luxury because now we have reached a point where we dont grow out of the dysfunctionality of the ego because it is now being amplified, the defeats the dysfunctions are amplified by technology. So wat we are doing to our self, our fellow human beings, to the planet is more and more destructive an devastating then destroying ourselves only.

Its time to stop, think, recognize the patterns and start negotiating and taming the ego.

'state of knowinglessness' - part ii

While i was getting to know ego i also came across several dimensions to it. like why humans are always plunged in the deep thoughts of desperation, recklessness, conflict, peace and harmony etc, i believe that human has been formed in such a way that it knows how to master the ego by defeating wants of material body to reach the supremacy of consciousness.

If someone is thinking that it is through brain control then i have a bad news, its not! 

Brain is the most efficient muscle of human body but note i used the word 'muscle', an involuntary muscle, making this fact the most amazing fact in itself. the chemical compositions and decompositions can make or break your body and mind. So how does it work? whats the correlation between everything; body, soul, brain, mind, ego, consciousness and us? 

As the body is made up of this earth's matter and has to dissolve here therefore it yearns and longs for worldly pleasure. it has lust for long wish list of materialism; beauty, money, fame, power, supremacy, recognition etc. On the parallel, soul is made of energy that is made up of matter; light and electromagnetism. Soul is beyond this earth and its gravitational force just like your dreams. interestingly, your brain makes you see and interpret things until you start believing in them. that's why we use the proverb, 'seeing is believing' and not 'feeling is believing'. 

the soul feeds on love, care, happiness, peace,compassion, harmony, etc. Soul is blind unlike body and it feels, it feels through the warmth and coldness of faith and inner light. the soul gets its nourishment from this inner light, the key element. (contd.)

'state of knowinglessness'

It was one of the days in my ordinary life when i started thinking about ego and how its different from self respect? and many days passed, i kept thinking for a satisfying answer that laughably i ignored for thirty years. i never realized, in actual terms, about what ego was? consciously and unconsciously, many days of my life passed in the 'state of knowinglessness' until i got of the first clue to the myth.

Ego maybe the simplest three lettered word yet complex for me. As a Muslim child i always read Quran, its verses for my defense regarding any subject unfortunately without real understanding. somehow, i was just beating around the bush and decoding the guiding information incorrectly and hastily. but then to my luck, the initial understanding of ego came from Osho, a non-Muslim spiritual guru (i hope no one holds me for my beliefs especially 'the Maulvi Sahib'). Osho presented the understanding of the Quranic verses, in his own philosphy, very simply. He spoke for me and explained me nothing new that I haven't read in Quran (i only didn't understand!). And i got my kick start.

ego, if you know it, is the most diffcult to recognize at the same time it's easiest to defeat. how? because it only requires recognition and then the battle begins. So the trick is to simply recognize it.  But on the contrary if you are unknown to the odds of ego you may ask whats wrong with ego or being egoist at all? why do one has to get rid of? so on and so forth. but my friends, the answer to this innocent question is as complex as ego itself.

Ego is like spider's web that entices your soul, it lures your spirit until you are a pray to it. picture ego as a vulture who eats and nourishes itself on one's soul and spirit. we all know that everything has a center, an epicenter; universe, solar system, earth, cells, electrons, nucleus, matter, everything. Similarly, our body also has an epicenter and that is our soul. the soul is an intangible being thus, hidden from the human eye or an MRI. soul is made up of some sort of energy still unknown to many including yours truly. but i know that soul has some connection with, the intangible, something which is beyond laws of physics or biology. lets take a closer look to understand the dynamics and beingness of soul. if we observe the nature we'll see that everything is protected by some sort of covering e.g. fruits, vegetables, trees, etc. in the very same way, the soul has been protected in our physical body, that belongs to this physical earth, that is visible to the human eye.

All the holy scriptures revealed on mankind including Quran, Bible, Torah and Tanakh contained the word of truth by God Almighty that the body is made up of dust and water. for this very reason all the God made religions bury their dead ultimately making the body eternal part of this earth from which it was created.
(to be continued)

daily calendar.

Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it.